Brenda's Blog

All articles from May, 2020

Overcome the “virtual mental barrier”

From executive coaching clients, I’m hearing phrases like, “Connecting with clients via video is just not as good as in person!” and “Video is definitely second best to communicating with clients live!” I encourage them to get over this “virtual mental barrier.”

If we believe video is second best to in-person, we’ll prove ourselves right — we’ll subconsciously discount it and not bring our best selves to remote conversations. Click on the video below, reframe your thinking, and embrace video as a powerful tool with many strengths and advantages.

The true meaning of lines on faces—and how to use them to connect with others

As we connect virtually with people across the world, we are often getting a closer look at others’ faces than we might get in person. This offers a fantastic opportunity to learn and practice a new skill that can help you better understand people and to connect with them instantly: the epigenetic approach to reading faces.

Ever wonder why someone has lines across their forehead, or lines that come down from the sides of their cheeks, or why some people have two vertical lines in between their eyebrows? None of those lines are caused by aging (cue sigh of relief!) Instead, they are all due to “epigenetics” – how your life events are captured and reflected on your face. Watch this short video I made about this eye-opening, simple-to-learn skill, and uncover the easiest way to making instant and better connections with anyone, anywhere.

P.S. It’s fun, too!

What are YOUR constants?

In the midst of all that is going on, it’s easy to fall into drama and “what if’s.” Instead, during this week (which is International Coaching Week) I’m encouraging clients to focus on what is certain and stable, the constants in their lives that will never change.

What are YOUR constants – your what “is?” And which of the two is getting more attention from you these days—what “is” or what “if’s?”